Having enough time to attach to your child and giving your child enough time to bond with you.... It's the most important time.
Truly, for me, as an adoptive mom, I spent—I don't know—six months teaching phonetics to my son. I was the Frenchie mom to an English kid. He didn't think I could teach him, but I did. He said to me, “How come you're the one who taught me this?” I said, “Because you needed the commitment and time of one parent who could do this for you.”
This is what giving enough time to family means.